If you have been a victim of violence, stalking or sexual abuse, you can apply for a court order to keep your abuser away from you. This order is called a Protective Order (“PO”). There are different kinds of PO’s for victims of domestic abuse, dating violence, sexual assault, stalking and human trafficking. 

A PO orders an abuser:

• not to hurt, threaten, or harass you or your children, either directly or through another person;
• to stay away from you, your family, your home, workplace, and children’s day care or school;
• not to carry a gun, even with a license.

The judge can also:

• order payment of child support and medical support,
• set terms and conditions for visitation with the children,
• order the abuser to attend anger management classes,
• order drug testing,
• order the abuser to attend a substance abuse treatment program,
• order the offender out of the home (“kick out order”).

What you must show depends on the type of protective order.

For a family violence protective order, you must be able to show that violence has occurred and it is likely that violence will continue in the future.

For stalking, sexual assault, and human trafficking protective orders, you must be able to show the abuser committed either stalking, sexual assault, or trafficking.

Some considerations:

• Family violence includes any intimate partner violence, including dating violence and violence between same-sex partners,
• A specific relationship with the abuser is not required for sexual assault, stalking and human trafficking protective orders.
• Call the police when an incident occurs. If you have made reports before, it is more likely that a PO will be granted,
• Don’t delay in applying for a protective order. Apply right after the incident. Waiting will reduce your chances of getting a PO, because the threat of immediate danger has passed.
• Document incidents of abuse. Photograph injuries, save threatening voice messages, texts, and emails. The more details you provide, the more likely you are to get a PO.