The first step is to look in your order to see who has the right to decide about your child’s education. If you do not have an order in place, there are no set rules about who can make these decisions.
This right can be given exclusively to one parent or can be shared jointly by both parents. This right can sometimes be given to each parent “independently,” which could get complicated if the parents disagree about the best school choice for the child. If the right is shared jointly, sometimes an order may state what to do if the parents cannot agree, such as choosing a third party who will serve as a “tie-breaker” or mediation.
To figure out who has the right to decide about education, look in the “Rights and Duties” section of your order. Talk to a lawyer if you need help understanding your order.
If the other parent has the exclusive right to decide about the child’s education, then that parent can choose to homeschool the child. If you disagree with this decision, you would have to go back to court to modify the order. Hire a lawyer if you need help modifying the orders, and the other parent disagrees.
Even if the other parent has the exclusive right to decide about education, they may still have a duty to inform you of their decision. If they take too long to tell you about the decision to homeschool, you may be able to file an enforcement action against them.
If you and the other parent share the right to make decisions about education jointly and still cannot agree, you may end up in court with a judge making the final decision about whether your child can be homeschooled. If this happens, the judge will make a decision based on the best interest of the child. The judge will consider many details about the situation and the child before making a decision. If you are homeschooling based on a desire to keep your child safe from COVID-19 or for other health reasons, a judge may consider this along with other factors regarding the child’s best interest.