I want to file a Motion to Enforce Visitation.
Child Custody & Visitation
Overview
Guide Overview
If you have a Texas court order that allows you to spend time with your child—but the other parent won’t allow it—this guide can help you see your child.
Research Tips
Start by reading these articles:
- Child Visitation & Possession Orders
- How to Enforce a Visitation Order
- Visitation Enforcement: How to Write a Visitation Demand Letter and Keep a Visitation Journal
- Gathering and Presenting Evidence
Also visit the web site TXAccess.org.
If you need to learn more, the TexasLawHelp Legal Research Guide can help you get started. Plus, there is a directory of public local law libraries at Law Libraries in Texas. A Texas resident not near a law library may be able to access more materials by registering for a free Texas State Law Library Account.
Common questions about Child Custody & Visitation
If you want to enforce your visitation order and ask the court to hold the other parent in contempt, there are very specific rules you must follow when you try to exercise your visitation. You are not technically denied visitation unless you actually appear in person at the pick-up location listed in your court order, even if the other parent has already told you that they will not be there or that they will not be giving you your child. By not producing the child at the pick-up location at a certain date and time, the other parent is violating the court order. However, that parent cannot be required to testify against their interests in court, so you have to be able to testify that you were there and they were not.
Try to obtain evidence that you were at the right location at the right date and time. You can take a witness with you to observe what happened. You can go to a nearby convenience store or fast food restaurant and buy a drink or a pack of gum, and keep the receipt showing you were in the area at a certain date and time. Some police departments may be willing to file a report for you.
Immediately write down what happened in your visitation journal. Write down the date, time, and place where you tried to pick up your child. If you have a witness, write down the name. If you have a receipt or other evidence, keep it safe.
Read the law that governs enforcement actions (Texas Family Code 157.001 through 157.217). If you are representing yourself, you—just like a lawyer—are expected to be familiar with the law.
Instructions & Forms
Instructions & Forms
If you want to enforce your visitation order and ask the court to hold the other parent in contempt, there are very specific rules you must follow when you try to exercise your visitation.
You are not technically denied visitation unless you actually appear in person at the pick-up location listed in your court order—even if the other parent has already said you that they will not be there, or that they will not be giving you your child.
By not producing the child at the pick-up location at a certain date and time, the other parent is violating the court order. But, that parent cannot be required to testify against their own interests in court, so you have to be able to show that you were there and the co-parent was not.
Forms and kits are at the bottom of this guide.
Checklist Steps
All forms can be found in the Visitation Enforcement Kit. Scroll down to the bottom of this page for links to these materials.
For Step One, you’ll need the following:
1. Civil Case Information Sheet (unless you are filing electronically). If you are filing your motion to enforce in person, complete the civil case information sheet, and make a copy for your records. The district clerk will keep the original.
2. Motion for Enforcement of Possession or Access and Order to Appear (with exhibits).
- Read through the Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order and Order to Appear very carefully. Fill in your case information in the blank spaces. Check only those boxes that apply in your case. If you’re not sure what to put in the blanks, talk to a lawyer.
- Sign the last page of the Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order in front of a notary.
- Make a copy for yourself and for every party in your case (The District Clerk will keep the original.)
3. Filing Fee
- Be prepared to pay a filing fee to the clerk when you file your papers.
- Call the district clerk to find out how much you’ll have to pay.
- If you can’t afford to pay you can file a Statement of Inability to Afford Payment of Court Costs or an Appeal Bond, which asks the court to waive the filing fees.
4. Learn how to set the hearing, and have the judge sign your Order to Appear.
- Call the judge’s court coordinator.
- Explain that you’re filing a Motion to Enforce and that you need to know:
- What the procedure is to get the judge to sign the Order to Appear, and
- What the procedure is to set the motion for a hearing.
- Write the instructions down.
1. File your papers with the district clerk’s office in the county where you got the order that you’re trying to enforce.
- Take your documents (and your copies) to the district clerk’s office.
- Tell the clerk you’re there to file a Motion to Enforce and hand the clerk all of your documents. (Place the original on top, and the copies of each document behind the original.)
- The clerk will “file stamp” your papers, noting the date when you filed your Motion.
- The clerk will give you your copies but will keep the original for the court’s file.
- Make sure to keep a copy of everything for yourself.
2. Set the Hearing
- Follow the Court Coordinator’s instructions to set a hearing to have your motion heard. (You should have written them in Step One: Do your Homework.)
- Be sure to set your case at least 20 days from the date you file your motion. This will give you enough time to give the other parties legal notice. The parties must have at least 10 days’ notice for a contempt hearing.
For Step Three, you’ll need the following:
- Order to Appear
- Motion for Enforcement with exhibits
Follow the court coordinator’s instructions to ask the judge sign the Order to Appear. Make sure and give the judge your Motion for Enforcement and Order to Appear
- You should have written the instructions down in Step One: Do your homework.
- After the judge signs the Order to Appear, make enough copies for yourself and all of the parties in your case. (The clerk will keep the original.)
- Proceed to Step Four: Give legal notice.
Tell the other party what you want. For Step Four, you will need the following:
- Copies of all of the documents you have filed
- Order to Appear, signed by the judge
You must give legal notice to all of the parties in your case. If you don’t know who the parties are in your case, you should talk to a lawyer.
1. Go back to the District Clerk’s Office
- Now that the judge has signed your Order to Appear, you need to file it in the District Clerk’s office.
- Tell the clerk you’re there to file the Order to Appear, and hand the clerk the original and copies. (Place the original on top and the copies of the document behind the original.)
- The clerk will “file stamp” your papers, noting the date when you filed the Order to Appear.
- The clerk will give you your copies but will keep the original for the court’s file.
- Make sure to keep a copy of everything for yourself.
- Tell the clerk you want to have a constable serve the Order to Appear and Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order on the parties in your case.
- Make sure the clerk will process the citation and give it to the constable to serve the other party. If not, you’ll need to give the citation to the constable to serve the other party. Ask the clerk how to do that.
- The constable will file a Return of Citation to show the court the party was served. The Return of Citation has to be in the court file for at least 10 days before you have a hearing.
- Talk to your witnesses. Prepare questions for them or have them prepare a statement to tell the judge.
- Review the documentation that shows the judge your visitation has been denied.
- Review the local rules for your county. Ask the clerk if your county has any special local rules and where you can find them.
- Review your papers for Step 7: Decision. Make sure they are correct.
Ask the judge for what you want and explain why you should get it. For Step Six, you need your paperwork for Step Seven: Decision.
1. Go to the courthouse
- Arrive early.
- Ask the district clerk if you need to pull your case file to take to the docket or does the judge already have it for your hearing.
2. Go to the courtroom.
Let the clerk (seated next to the judge’s bench) know you have arrived for your hearing. Ask the clerk if they need any of your papers, or if the judge prefers for you to give your papers to the judge.
3. Sit down and wait for the judge to call your case.
- Sometimes the judge calls roll. When the judge calls your case (by your name or your cause number), stand up, and tell the judge you are the Petitioner, and how much time you think your case will take. Then, sit down, and wait to be called again.
- If the judge is not calling roll, then stand before the bench when you are called.
- The judge will swear you in and may ask you to “proceed” with your testimony or may ask you questions.
- Answer the judge truthfully, courteously, and respectfully.
- The judge needs to know how the other party violated the court order. Be sure to stick to the facts. Be respectful of the other party. Be businesslike.
- If you have witnesses to call or evidence to present, you will do so at this time. (After you call each witness, the other party can ask questions of them.)
- The other party may call witnesses, and you can ask questions of them.
The judge decides whether or not you should get what you asked for. You give the judge an Order to sign. The order needs to say exactly what the judge decided.
For Step Seven, you need the following:
- Order on Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order
- Capias
1. After the judge has finished hearing your testimony and reviewing your papers, the judge will make a decision in your case.
2. When the judge makes the decision (ruling) make sure you write down everything the judge says. You will need to fill in the Order on Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order based on what the judge says. The order needs to say exactly what the judge decided. You give the judge the Order to sign.
3. If the other party was served with your motion and the Order to Appear but did not appear at the hearing, you can ask the judge to sign a Capias. The Capias orders law enforcement to arrest the other party for failing to come to court, as ordered. Once the party is arrested, you can reset your hearing on the Motion for Enforcement, Contempt, and law enforcement will bring the party in for the hearing.
4. If the other party appears at your hearing, you do NOT need the capias. Throw it away and complete the Order on Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order.
Forms Required
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Handout: Are you being denied child visitation?
FM-AV-107 – What Counts as a Denial of Visitation
This handout explains how to document denials of child visitation. -
Visitation Journal Template
FDC-CCV-702
Document your attempts to exercise your visitation rights when seeking enforcement of a Texas visitation order. -
Visitation Demand Letter Template
FDC-CCV-701
Create a demand letter to begin visitation enforcement process; demand that a party comply with a Texas visitation order -
Visitation Demand Letter
FM-AV-120–Demand Letter–Visitation
Create a demand letter to begin visitation enforcement process, asking a party to comply with a Texas visitation order. -
Visitation Enforcement Kit
FDC-CCV-700
Forms & instructions to enforce a Texas visitation order. Includes info on evidence, filing suit, and hearing process. -
Visitation Enforcement Kit - Guided Form
FDC-CCV-700-Int
Guided version. Forms & instructions to enforce a Texas visitation order. Includes info on evidence, filing suit, and hearing process. -
Motion to Enforce and for Contempt
FM-AV-100-Motion to Enforce and for Contempt
File this motion to ask the court to impose consequences on a parent who has not let their co-parent see their child. -
Order to Appear and Show Cause
FM-AV-101
Order signed by a judge that orders the other party to come to court for your hearing. -
Letter to Opposing Counsel Confirming Pro Se Representation
CV-GN-101-Letter to Opposing Counsel Confirming Pro Se
Use this letter to tell the other side's lawyer that you represent yourself. -
Capias
FM-AV-104-Capias
The district clerk issues a capias for Respondent's arrest if the judge orders it because Respondent did not appear. -
Order for Capias
FM-AV-102-Order for Capias
The judge signs this order for Respondent’s arrest if they were served with legal notice of hearing but did not appear. -
Order on Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order
FM-AV-106 Order on Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order
The judge signs this form to order makeup visitation, contempt, or other penalties if a parent has not allowed child visitation. -
Demand Letter for Conservator's Contact Information
FM-AV-125–Demand Letter– Contact Info
Send this letter if the other parent is withholding their address in violation of a Texas custody order.
Articles
Articles in this guide
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Court Fees and Fee Waivers
If you don’t have enough money to pay the court fees, you can ask a judge to waive the fees. -
Child Visitation and Possession Orders
Learn about Texas visitation orders, also called possession orders. -
How to Enforce a Visitation Order
This article discusses how to enforce a visitation order if the other parent is not letting you see your child at the times listed in your court or... -
Asking the Court to Clarify Visitation Orders
This article explains when you can file a motion to clarify ambiguous custody and visitation orders. -
Visitation Enforcement: How to Write a Visitation Demand Letter and Keep a Visitation Journal
Learn about preparing to enforce custody and visitation. -
What to Do When a Parent Refuses to Follow a Court Order and Return a Child
This article answers frequently asked questions about your rights to possession of a child when you have a court order for possession but the child... -
Gathering and Presenting Evidence
This article tells you what evidence is and provides information on the evidence rules that are followed in Texas courts. -
Settling Custody, Visitation, and Support Out of Court
This article explores alternative dispute resolution for Suits Affecting the Parent-Child Relationship. -
Makeup Visitation
This article discusses makeup visitation: when you reschedule a visit with the child or get extra visits to make up for missed time. -
Military Deployment and Child Custody
Here is what can happen with a military parent’s visitation and parental rights and duties while they are deployed. -
Talking to the Other Side's Lawyer When You're Self-Represented
This article explains ways to talk to the other side's lawyer if you are representing yourself.