I need to give a nonparent permission to care for my child.
Nonparent Caregiver Authorizations
Overview
Guide Overview
A parent can sign an “authorization agreement” to give a nonparent the authority to care for and make decisions for a child.
By completing this agreement, both you and the caregiver can make decisions about the child without needing the court's permission.
In this toolkit, you’ll find links to forms plus answers to common questions, such as
- What the agreement does,
- When it might be a good option, and
- How to complete it.
Research Tips
- Start by reading the "common questions" section below.
- Read Authorization for Nonparent Care of a Child
- Read the law about nonparent authorization agreements: Family Code chapter 34.
- Look at the State Law Library's page about care agreements.
Common questions about Nonparent Caregiver Authorizations
An Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Adult Caregiver ("authorization agreement" for short) authorizes the nonparent to:
- Consent to medical treatment for the child;
- Get insurance for the child;
- Enroll the child in school or daycare;
- Consent to extracurricular activities;
- Consent to the child getting a driver’s license or state identification card;
- Consent to the child getting a job;
- Apply for and receive public benefits on behalf of the child;
- Get copies of the child's state-issued personal identification documents, such as the birth certificate; and
- Get copies of federally issued personal identification documents such as the social security card (to the extent authorized under federal law).
An authorization agreement does not authorize the nonparent to consent to an abortion or emergency contraception for the child.
Any adult caregiver—such as a relative or family friend—can be authorized to make decisions for a child using the authorization agreement form.
If there is a pending or previous court order (like a divorce or custody–support case), you must get the court’s express permission first. Without it, the document is not valid.
Read Asking the Court to Allow an Authorization Agreement for Nonparent Adult Caregiver.
At least one parent and the nonparent must sign the authorization agreement form.
Under Texas law, a "parent" is:
- A child's mother
- A man who is presumed to be the father
- A man who has been legally recognized as the father
- A man declared to be the father by a court
- A man who has officially acknowledged that he is the father, or
- An adoptive mother or father.
Yes, you usually must mail a copy of the signed form to the other parent within 10 days. Send it by certified mail (return receipt requested) and regular mail.
Exceptions:
- You don’t have to send the form to a parent whose parental rights were terminated.
- You don’t have to send the form if the other parent:
- Has no court-ordered visitation or access, and
- Is subject to a protective order involving you or your child, or
- Was convicted of certain crimes.
The form includes a full list of exceptions.
Generally, an authorization agreement lasts for six months from the date it is signed by the parties and renews automatically in six-month terms. See Texas Family Code 34.003(a)(1)(A)(i).
Alternatively, the agreement can end sooner if:
- You cancel it in writing (see Revoking an Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Nonparent Adult Caregiver),
- An expiration date passes,
- Specific conditions you set in the agreement occur, or
- A judge signs a custody order.
If you check the appropriate box on the form, the authorization agreement can remain effective even after your incapacity or death.
Additionally, if a court case about the child arises after the agreement is signed, a judge will determine whether the document remains in effect.
No, the caregiver does not have to be a relative.
An authorization agreement has no effect upon a child's immigration status.
Using the form published by the Department of Family and Protective Services is not mandatory. The authorization agreement, even if it is not on the Department of Family and Protective Services form, still must meet the requirements of Texas Family Code chapter 34.
If you are caring for a child but are not their parent and want to set up something like an authorization agreement in case of an emergency, talk to a lawyer about your options. The form published by the Department of Family and Protective Services is only for use by parents.
It depends. Signing the agreement does not mean you are giving up the right to make important decisions about the child, or that you are giving the caregiver custody. The Authorization Agreement is meant to be temporary. You also still have a duty to support your child when the agreement is in place.
But under the Texas Family Code, someone who has had “actual care, control, and possession of the child” for six months or longer could have the right to file a custody suit. But, courts must always make decisions that are in the child's best interest.
Talk to a lawyer about protecting your rights.
Yes. Authorization agreements can be revoked. The revocation must be in writing and filed with the clerk, with copies given to the parent and caregiver.
Read Revoking an Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Nonparent Adult Caregiver.
In the "instructions and forms" section of this guide, click on the Cancelling the Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Adult Caregiver checklist for a form and steps to revoke the agreement.
An Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Adult Caregiver allows a nonparent to apply for and receive public benefits for a child.
Public benefits may include:
- Food stamps
- CHIP
- Medicaid
- SSI
- TANF
If a child will be living with and cared for by a nonparent adult caregiver, it’s essential to notify the government agency that manages those benefits.
The caregiver cannot consent to abortions, emergency contraception, or immunizations, if the parent specifically said no. They cannot apply for a passport on behalf of the child.
Powers of attorney can be used to give someone the power to make many types of decisions for you and perform certain actions on your behalf. However, Texas law offers authorization agreements specifically for the purpose of letting someone care for your child.
Instructions & Forms
Instructions & Forms
Follow these steps to help you complete this Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Adult Caregiver of a Child form,* from preparing it to following up and making sure it is valid.
Each step includes a link to any form or forms needed for that step. You can print these instructions to use as a checklist.
*These instructions apply specifically to the Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Adult Caregiver of a Child form published by the State of Texas.
Checklist Steps
Read Authorization for Nonparent Care of a Child and the overview section of this toolkit. And look over the Authorization Agreement form itself.
If you still have questions, talk to a lawyer. Use the Legal Help Directory for help finding a lawyer.
Deciding who will care for your child when you are unavailable is a big deal. Think carefully about the caregiver's stability. Some questions to ask yourself:
- Is this someone you know and trust?
- What kind of relationship does your child have with the caregiver?
- Does the caregiver have any history of involvement from Child Protective Services, Adult Protective Services, or law enforcement?
- Does the caregiver have the physical, emotional, and financial ability to care for the child for a long period of time, if necessary?
- Do they have legal immigration status, and can they prove it?
Make sure the person you choose is both willing and able to take care of your child. The agreement itself contains a statement that the caregiver voluntarily accepts the authorization.
Discuss these key points with them:
- Duration of Care: They may need to care for your child for an extended period. Make sure they are comfortable with this possibility. Talk about how long it could be.
- Financial Support: Who will cover the costs of caring for the child?
- Living Situation: Who else lives with the caregiver? Does anyone in their household have a criminal record or a history of abuse or neglect with CPS?
- Supervision: Can they provide appropriate supervision for your child?
- Child's Needs: Share any important details about your child's medical needs or educational requirements.
- School Information: Make sure the caregiver knows which school your child attends.
The caregiver must meet certain criteria:
- They must be at least 18 years old.
- If they are the child's parent, their parental rights to the child cannot have been terminated.
Make sure the caregiver understands the nature of the obligation. Reviewing this guide might help them.
Go through the form section by section. Each section explains what information is needed.
For example, in the first section on Page 1, write the child's full name where it says "Child's Full Name."
You will need:
- The child's name and date of birth
- The parent(s) name, current physical address, phone number and any other contact information
- If the parents are not together but the other parent's identity is known, you need that parent’s current physical address, phone number or contact information
- The caregiver's name, current physical address, phone number and any other contact information
- The caregiver's relationship to the child.
On Page 2, there are some boxes to check about whether there has been prior court involvement with the child.
If the child is or has been the subject of a court order, or a case is pending, do not prepare this authorization agreement. You must first get the court's permission. To ask for permission, use the materials available in this guide: I need court approval for an authorization agreement for a nonparent adult caregiver.
Review the first checkbox and check it if the statement below is true.
| This child is not part of any existing authorization agreement, and no one else (like a parent, guardian, or agency) claims physical custody or care of the child that conflicts with this agreement. |
Important: If there is already an authorization agreement in effect, then you cannot create a new one unless the agreement has been terminated.
Then, you will check either:
| There Is No Court Involvement with This Child, or |
| This Child Has Been the Subject of a Court Action |
If there is a court order affecting the child—such as a divorce decree, order establishing paternity, Texas child support order, or order in Suit Affecting the Parent-Child Relationship—get a copy of those court orders.
Staple the orders to your completed Authorization Agreement.
Texas law says only one court at a time should be making decisions about a child. This is so that there will not be multiple, conflicting orders about that child, and confusion about which order should be followed.
How do you know if there is a court order?
Not sure if you have a court order for your child? Ask yourself:
- Have I been served court papers about this child?
- Have I spoken to a judge or been to court about this child?
- Has anyone been ordered to pay child support for this child?
- Have I attended a meeting about this child with the Texas Attorney General’s Office?
- Did I divorce the other parent after the child was born?
If you answered yes to any of these, there may be a court order.
How do you confirm if there is a court order?
1. Check with the district clerk’s office.
- Contact the clerk in the county where the child lived when the order was issued.
- If the child has moved, you might need to check multiple counties.
2. Use the Inquiry on Court Of Continuing Jurisdiction for a Child. This tool can identify the court that has exclusive jurisdiction in a suit affecting the parent-child relationship (SAPCR).
3. What to Say to the Clerk
- Ask for records related to a Suit Affecting the Parent-Child Relationship (SAPCR) order.
- Provide the case number, or your name and the child’s name.
Note: Some clerks may require a form or offer online access to records.
Additional Note
If you worked with the Texas Attorney General Child Support Division, any “agreement” signed by a judge becomes a court order. You can contact their office or the District Clerk for a copy, though fees may apply.
On Page 4 of the form, indicate how long you want the Authorization to remain in effect.
- Default duration: The agreement lasts six months from the date it is signed and automatically renews for six-month terms. (See Texas Family Code 34.003(a)(1)(A)(i).)
- You can set an expiration date: Specify an expiration date or circumstances in the document.
If you check the appropriate box on the form, the authorization can remain effective after your incapacity or death.
If a court case about the child starts after the authorization is signed, a judge will decide whether the agreement remains in effect.
| When It Ends |
The agreement ends if:
|
You will sign the form on Page 6. Do not sign it until you are in front of a notary public. A notary public is someone licensed to give oaths, check that documents are real, and take official statements. Notaries confirm the identities of the people involved, watch people sign papers, give oaths, and certify copies of important documents.
Make sure the nonparent caregiver has important documents and a list of important contacts. Use the Information About the Child for Voluntary Adult Caregivers form to help you gather the details. Then, give the completed form to the caregiver.
The person who will be caring for your child needs to know:
- Who the child's medical providers are
- Medicines the child needs
- Where the child's medical records are
- Where the child goes to school
Make copies of the following to give to the designated caregiver:
- The completed authorization agreement
- Child's birth certificate
- Child's health records
- Documentation about the child's public benefits (such as Medicaid/CHIP, Social Security, etc.)
- Also, ensure the caregiver knows where to find the your child’s original birth certificate and Social Security card.
The caregiver can use the signed authorization agreement to request the child's identification documents. But it is best to be prepared ahead of time so that they already have the identification documents.
Also, your child should know who will care for them in an emergency and how to contact that person.
And, be sure to add the caregiver as an emergency contact in your child’s school records and with their health care providers.
Finally, think about any other resources that might be helpful for the child.
Important: Keep a copy of the final agreement in a safe place for your records.
Did both parents sign the form together?
If they did not, you must mail a copy of the signed authorization agreement to the other parent within 10 days of signing it.
Send the form by certified mail with return receipt requested (or international registered mail, if needed) and also by regular mail.
Exception to Mailing Requirements:
You do not have to mail a copy of the agreement to the other parent if they:
- Did not sign,
- Do not have court-ordered visitation or access to the child, and:
- A protective order has been issued against them for family violence, or
- They have been convicted of a violent or sexual crime against you or your child. (This includes crimes like murder, assault, kidnapping, or similar offenses.)
Forms Required
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Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Non-Parent Caregiver
FM-34-109
For parents and relatives. Use this form to give other relative caregivers legal rights to care for children. State of Texas form. -
Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Non-Parent Caregiver (Spanish Translation Attached)
FM-34-109-EN-ES
With this form, parents can give nonparents temporary legal rights to care for children. State of Texas form with translation to Spanish attached. ... -
VLS: Authorization Agreement for Nonparent Adult Caregiver | Acuerdo De Autorización Para Cuidador Que No Es Un Padre)
FM-34-109-EN-ES-VLS
With this form, parents can give nonparents temporary legal rights to care for children. Form by Volunteer Legal Services (not State of Texas). Spa... -
Information About the Child for Voluntary Adult Caregivers
FM-TA-TFC34-100
Complete and to the trusted adult that you have chosen to care for your child if you are unavailable in an emergency. Use one form per child. Engli... -
Information About the Child for Voluntary Adult Caregivers - VI
FM-TA-TFC34-100-VI
Complete and to the trusted adult that you have chosen to care for your child if you are unavailable in an emergency. Use one form per child. Engli...
A parent can revoke (take back or cancel) an authorization agreement at any time in writing. Normally, authorization agreements giving nonparents the right to care for children expire after six months on their own, unless renewed. But an agreement can be revoked sooner.
To revoke an authorization agreement, complete, sign, and file a written revocation. The revocation document serves as proof that the agreement is no longer in effect.
Checklist Steps
Complete the Revocation of Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Nonparent Adult Caregiver form and sign it.
- If there are already orders about this child such as divorce, custody, or child support, fill in the “cause number” at the very top of the form. Leave it blank if there are no orders.
- Under "In the Interest of the Following Minor Child," fill in all of the child's initials in the blank to the right of "Child’s initials." For example, if the child's name is "Jane Marie Doe," write "J.M.D."
- If there are already court orders concerning the child, write the number of the court. For example, if a divorce and custody case was signed by the judge in the 254th District Court, write "254th."
Check the appropriate box for the type of court.
You must file the completed form with the clerk in the county where:
- The child lives,
- The child lived when the parent signed the authorization agreement, or
- The nonparent adult caregiver lives.
Additionally, if there are court orders about the child (such as custody, support, or guardianship), you must also file the revocation with the relevant court’s clerk.
For family law cases, that usually means the district clerk’s office. Guardianship cases are in probate court, and the clerk that handles probate court may depend on the county.
Filing ensures that the cancellation is officially recorded and that the court knows about it.
Each party involved needs written notice of the revocation. Give the completed, signed revocation to the other parent and the nonparent voluntary adult caregiver.
Methods:
- Send it to them via U.S. Postal Service. Sending it by certified mail is a good idea.
- Email it to them as a PDF (and save the proof it was sent).
- Hand it to them in person, if it is safe to do so. Ask for a signed acknowledgment from the parties who receive the revocation, or bring a witness with you.
It is a good idea to give the revocation to third parties like the child’s school and health care providers, too.
Keep several copies of the signed revocation form for your records.
Forms Required
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Revocation of Authorization Agreement for Voluntary Adult Nonparent Caregiver
FM-TA-TFC34-101
Use this form to revoke an authorization for a voluntary adult caregiver to care for your minor child.
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