Should I agree to mediation if my spouse has been abusive?
Mediation can be helpful when both people have equal power. Both people must be able to say what they want without being afraid or pressured.
Threats and control are common in relationships where one person is abusive. If the abuser is used to being in charge and making all the decisions, mediation probably won’t work very well.
Mediation may be even more of a problem if your spouse abused you and you don’t have a lawyer.