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A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Assault

If you are assaulted

Get to a safe place and do the following : 

  • Do not shower, bathe, douche, wash your hands, brush your teeth, or use the toilet. 
  • Don't change or destroy clothing. As hard as it may be not to clean up, you may destroy important evidence if you do.
  • Get medical attention as soon as possible.
  • Contact a friend or family member you trust or call your local Rape Crisis Hotline for support and information.

Table of Contents

Table of Contents:


4 Reading this will help

  • There Are Four Important Reasons Why You Need Medical Attention
  • What are my rights?
  • Where Should I Go?
  • Should I Report?
  • Will This Cost Money?
  • What Medical Treatment Can I Receive?
  • What Will the Exam Be Like?
  • Follow-Up Treatment
  • Emergency Contraception
  • SANE Nurse - What is a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner?

7 If you think you have been drugged

  • Stage One: Prepare.
  • Stage Two: Call.
  • Stage Three: Go.
  • How could this happen to me?

8 The Realities of Sexual Assault

9 What are my rights?

  • As A Crime Victim or Witness
  • As a Patient

10 Do I have to report this to the police?

  • Advantages
  • Disadvantages

11 What happens in court?

  • Usual order of events in a criminal proceeding.
  • Can I file a civil suit?
  • What am I feeling?
  • Does anyone know how I feel?
  • How long will I feel this way?

13 How will my family and friends react?

14 Will I ever feel safe again?

  • I’m afraid to be alone.
  • I wonder If I’ll ever feel safe again.
  • I’m afraid my attacker will return.
  • I’m considering purchasing pepper spray or a gun to protect myself.
  • I don’t feel safe at home.
  • I’m frightened when I go out of my house.
  • Safety at home
  • Safety on the street

15 Someone I care about was assaulted.

  • What can I do to help?

16 Who pays for this?

  • Basic Qualification Requirements
  • Who May Qualify
  • Who Is Not Eligible
  • What Crimes Are Covered
  • What Expenses Are Eligible
  • Limits on Awards
  • How to Apply

17 What about me?

  • My child has been sexually assaulted...
  • Legally:
  • Reporting Law:
  • I am a teenager...
  • I am a male survivor...
  • I am a lesbian survivor...
  • I am a senior survivor...
  • I have a disability...
  • I was assaulted by someone I know...
  • I am An Undocumented Resident...
  • Some Common Myths About Marital Rape Include:
  • I was Assaulted by My Spouse...

18 The Realities of Child Sexual Assault

22 Who can help me?

Will I ever feel safe again?

I’m afraid to be alone.                                                         
Your fear is natural. After being sexually assaulted, you may also feel humiliated, degraded and depressed.
You may want to isolate yourself even if you are afraid to be alone. These feelings are common and it is helpful
to your recovery to deal with them. A rape crisis hotline or crisis counseling center may be able to help you deal
with these feelings whenever they arise.

I wonder If I’ll ever feel safe again.
It is very common for you to feel afraid, especially in circumstances similar to those under which the assault occurred (i.e. same place, same time of day, etc.) Most people find that they begin to feel safer after a period of time. The length of this period varies. Again, fear for your safety is a very normal reaction. A supportive, non-judgmental listener can help you deal with this normal reaction.

I’m afraid my attacker will return.
Although many rapists threaten to return, in reality very few ever do. Still, the threat itself can be frightening. Taking the precautions to make yourself and your home safer is one way of dealing with such a threat and the fear it causes. See the suggestions listed below for specific actions you can take.

I’m considering purchasing pepper spray or a gun to protect myself.
It is not uncommon after a sexual assault to want to purchase a weapon. It’s a good idea to consider the following before making a decision:
• Pepper spray cannisters, guns, knives, hat pins, etc., can all be taken away and used against you. Also, pepper spray cannisters may malfunction at any time.
• You may not have your pepper spray or other weapon with you when you need it.
• Approximately half of all assailants are known by the survivor.
• Children can find weapons and hurt themselves accidentally.
As an alternative to weapons, you may want to enroll in self-defense courses. A good instructor can help turn fear into anger and then into action. You can learn how to use awareness, assertiveness and physical action to defend yourself. Learning self defense is one way of dealing with fear and anxiety. What you learn becomes part of you and you always have it with you.

 

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